When I tell people I’m a debater, most people assume that I have very strong political views, and that I somehow have “all the answers” to the world’s political problems. In reality, this could be no more distant from the truth.
I have been debating for seven years: four in high-school and three in university. That is approximately half of the portion of my life that I can remember. To say that it has shaped me as a person would be an understatement. I often joke that debate isn’t a hobby, it’s a personality type.
However, since I started competing, I have noticed a strange trend. I have become less and less opinionated on controversial issues. Unlike in youth parliament, competitive debate does not give you the luxury of debating what you personally believe. Rather, you are given both a topic and either an “affirmative” or “negative” stance on that topic. You must then present clear and logical arguments supporting that stance. If you ever concede or admit that you don’t think your side is correct, then you will certainly lose the round.
When you are assigned the viewpoint opposite to your own, the immediate consequence is that the logic of the opposing viewpoint becomes clear to you. Time and time again, this has happened to me. It is so easy to view people who disagree as simply stupid or evil, but I do not have a monopoly on logic. Those who disagree with me can be logically correct.
This has led me to the unsettling conclusion that there might not be right answers to these issues, or if there is, knowing them is beyond human grasp. When devising a policy, there are always harms and benefits, and much to my chagrin, most of the time these cannot be quantified. Unless we start randomly assigning arbitrary numbers to happiness and pain, there is no way to objectively weigh whether the harms outweigh the benefits.
It is here that I see voice becomes important. Everybody has different things they value, and different things they care about. What people believe, what people speak out for, what people are passionate about depends on their circumstances, their personality, how they were raised. And on any issue, there are different voices to be heard.
Which voices do we listen to? Debate experience has taught me that sometimes, even when a policy seems to make sense, somebody gets left behind. Somebody’s voice is stifled. Sometimes politicians have to make those tough decisions, and decide that one group’s rights trump those of another. Those decisions are never easy. But I think what is important is that we acknowledge that we do it, and that we make sure to listen to the voices of those who are left behind.
So is there a right answer? Who knows. But can we get something close to a right answer? Yes. We do it by acknowledging the role voice plays in opinion, and making a conscious effort to hear as many different voices and viewpoints as possible. No voice is evil, no voice is stupid. Some voices are different, and some voices clash. And if we want to ever find compromise, find ways to make the world better, I think it will be done by listening to as many voices as possible.
We can’t please everyone, but when we take the time to listen to each other and to hear the voices facing hardship we can see the people behind those voices as not just a statistic or an abstract logical construct. And it is in listening that we will find compassion.